Nik, LnL, and Ellie....


I do need your feedback so very much. Thank you Thank you Thank you !!!

One of my main problems is being defensive....and taking things personally. Sooooo your thoughts, outside perspectives, and reminders that maybe he did miss me....have settled in my heart. H was a bit more pleasant last night after work....he had a fairly good day. Time and doing nothing is a good approach for me when in doubt.

I mentioned that when the pressure was off this week, perhaps we could have some quality time to talk when we weren't dealing with a heated issue. That with all the company, his work pressures, and me being gone for 4 days...we were kind of out of sinc. He was fine with that. Gave me a peck on the cheek and went off to work. No physical contact other than that.

Nik my H's LL is quality time/discussion.....so I've got to make that a priority and fill up his love bank. Mine is feeling low, so I've got to dig deep.

Thanks for your insights.....already feeling much better.

Mooka