Hey Mooka, I decided to lurk today and I see this. OK, from an outsider looking in....First, give it a few days. I ALWAYS overreact when I blurt out my feelings without thoroughly thinking things thru. A day or 2 will give you more insite into how to proceed.
Looking on the positive side, it looks like your H was worried and frustrated and spoke before he thought it thru. You don't deserve to be spoken to like that, that is true but try to give him the benefit of the doubt if you can.
You have a great trip planned and I would want to do everything possible to make that trip FABULOUS!!
So, Can you talk to him or email him your feelings without him getting defensive? It's important for you to not bottle things up and it's important for him to not get defensive. Take the high road even if it means you have to apologize first. For the record you did nothing wrong.
Let me know how things go. What is your H's LL again? I'm like you, mine is now physical touch.
