So glad to hear about your husband opening up over the weekend!! How wonderful for both of you.
I KNOW your are right to focus on the positive and look for the actions and not the words......
My H's actions have also been relatively loving(keeping in mind that it's only been four weeks since I found out about the Other women( last year) He's not been overly attentive, but still he does appear to be truely trying.
Without being able to talk about it I get very little to go on,all I can come up for myself right now is "Time will tell" which means I'm gonna be walking on eggshells for a LONG time.Ugh!
My problem: I keep thinking it's just a front. That the nicer he is the worse things really are!! Crazy huh.( I am by nature an overly trusting person and I HATE this feeling paranoid).
Anyways, I do feel a bit better when I concentrate on what he appears to be focusing on, which is the future and not the past....
