Just wanted to update and catch up with some of you. Had a nice week-end....went to see S in college, caught the football game, had dinner, talked with the kids about X-mas plans, etc. Sunday...more family time....our D22 is home now fulltime....graduated and start her job in a week. H and I don't have much of our own time...but will when she starts her job.
He was pleasant yesterday....said something curious to our D while I was cutting his hair out on the deck...he said... "Now this is a realy act of love, watch how your Mom does this"...and he repeated it again. I smiled and said, yeah, I'm pretty good at this, huh?
Now that is the first time he has mentioned the "L" word in regards to me in a long time. He says it often to our kids...but neither of us have mentioned it to each other.
I tried to be affectionate last night in bed....he was more into the movie...so I rolled over and went to sleep. He asked me later if I was ok....I said ya fine.
I need more affection than he gives at times...but I'll continue to be patient on that one. Gotta still build the trust day to day, I guess.
He also said he was coming home at a decent hour tonight...even tho his work collegues are going out to dinner....he said he was passing on that.
We head out of town Fri as a family to the east coast for a wedding...we are all looking forward to seeing his side of the family, haven't seen them all together in 2 yrs.
Well, off for a walk with the dog before my day begins.
