So nice to hear from you...Slowly, Deb and Sue. It feels good to have you folks check in from time to time. Sometimes I feel like I am journalling to myself...but that helps here on the BB as well.

Went to Seattle last week to help our d move. She is moving back with us and looking for a real job...just graduated last week! Yeah team! She is on a trip for 2 weeks then will arrive here.

H and I are doing well. He planned work travel to Seattle part of the time I was there....so I stayed with him at the nice hotel. We are doing well. Some limited R talks...not too much. Like Sue said....keep up the patience and let it come in time....on H time. That's what my C emphasized as well. There are absolutely NO indications of OW....that really helps my attitude. H has totally moved out of the apt....we re-arranged the furniture in our home...with his added new purchases. He bought things that go with our current stuff....even at the beginnings of his move out. (INteresting )

WE leave for a 2 week trip next Tue....will be out of touch on the BB after the 31st. I will check on some of you now....anxious to catch up.

Mooka