Finally....I'm back to catching any/or alll of you up on my sitch. Things are going so very well.....I'm not sure where to begin...how about some highlights:
-H took me to the airport for my week long trip with gf's. He kissed me good-bye and told me to have a wonderful time.
_H and I talked prior to leaving about the status of our R. He stated, "we are communicating better than we have in 2-3 years, spending lots of quality time together and enjoying each other." He said..."it will take some time and we've still got some hard stuff to talk about, but with time, we'll continue moving forward."
-I had an amazing trip with my gf's....hiking, swimming in the sea, touring.....great talks, food, wine....laughter, etc. Totally rejuvinating for me
-H stayed at our home with son for the entire week. They both said they got along great....had fun.
-H has been with me everynight at our home the last week. He left for a business trip this morning, but is coming back here Thur afternoon....
-H talked about his lease....may try to get out of it. (Nov. 1) If not, suggested our D living there in the fall when she returns home from college (she'll be done and hopefully working fulltime)
-ML a couple times since I've been home (1 week)
-We played golf 3 times this past week, took long walks, had dinners home, drank champagne....etc...just dating, I guess
-H continues to talk about "US" taking a trip at the end of the summer....just the 2 of us.
-H also suggested a family trip over the X-mas holidays....a cruise or something fun for the 4 of us.
I'm anxious at times to ask specific questions about our future together, but i DON'T. I am totally trying NOT to put on the pressure. I am not playing games either. I am a better listener, validating more....carefully choosing my words when sharing thoughts.
No ILY's from either side. Just occaisional hugs, kisses, some touches....small stuff. Occaisional spooning in the a.m.
It's all so good right now. I want to move slowly and carefully. He's planning ahead week to week. Let's me know of meetings, work dinners, etc. He cuts out of them early and returns home. Yeah team....this DBing stuff is really paying off!!!
I'm still continueing with the NO PRESSURE plan....taking each day, one at a time.
Just had to share. Thanks to so many of you out there in BB-Land....I wouldn't be here with out your continued support and guidance. Bless you all.
