A friend of my BIL told me when he was in his 30's he did this same type of thing. He said, he was so sorry. He blew his M and his life has never been the same.

His advice to me was no never let pride stand in the way of anything that I need to do for my M. He is convinced that a Lot of M's end because someone is too foolish to correct mistakes and take ownership. He said, that foolish PRIDE is not worth your family!


Oh yeah , another story from the weekend. My SIL told me sometime ago that her brother and W were separating. He was wanting to move on yada, yada,yada. He is not IL.

Well, he left her she starting seeing someone. He flipped out on her and the guy because he caught them 2gether. They are now working on their M! WTF? He has been saying he doesn't want her for months b4 he moved out!!!!!!!!! Evidence that these guys are confused!!!!!!!

Nitaf