I don't remember all that I wrote...I'm still not quite ready to go back and review my posts...
As for having my husband come post on the BB. I'm flattered you would ask. But, I prefer to not ask him to. You see the BB is MY sanctuary. I feel safe here. I've asked him to stay away so that I can continue to post without fear of him reading...and he agreed.
But, you may want to look for Ceberon and Calystra's posts. Ceb's posts really helped me understand where the Walk Away was coming from.
As for your situation with your spouse...it sounds like you are doing all the right things. Giving him space, no relationship talks. I think it's great that he noticed the changes you've made...even if he doesn't trust them...but I think if you keep giving him time, he will trust your changes!
