Husband was outside, mowing the yard...I think a positive result of the agitation he's undergoing while trying to quit smoking!
Spent Sunday with my parents while he was out with friends. Parents and I went and got my school books. Husband went and played golf and got himself a sunburn.
We also had an intense talk about touching/sex.
I was open and honest with him about my feelings. And he listened with respect and compassion.
I suggested the touching me technique that I've read about on the BB. Where the Low-drive spouse, hugs and touches the High-Drive spouse. Explained to husband that I really want to be touched...and that I feel like the only time he will touch me is during sex.
He explained that he was worried that if he started touching me, I'd immediately want sex.
Funny and FRUSTRATING!
But, we had a great talk. I no longer feel so helpless. And I feel like he HEARD me.
So, yeah!
Things are kinda crazy at work...so I'll be reading, but not posting much today.