Working on the kitchen - got me a new stove (electric glasstop), got some wicker for the sunroom (that room is done and really looks good) I am going to work on finishing the kitchen then the dining room and the living room next - the bath also needs work but is ok for now - I am staying in the guest room for now. plan on moving all my big stuff on the weekend after next (will hire someone to help me) it is going ok for now but would like it to be done.
House is coming along - having the master bedroom repainted today and still working on the kitchen. Staying in the house with such a little stuff there is like camping out. Plans are for now to move all my funiture from the apartment to the house next weekend. My Brother is coming down to help. all I have to move is a bedroom suit, living room suit and Dining room suit along with a few TVs and the Washer and Dryer. still have lots to box up but I can do that anytime before The end of August.
Once I get all my stuff in then I can get orginized and move on. I will essentially be where I was BC (before C) At that time then any contact w/ C will be from her. Maybe the great weekend we had in June was a "flash in the Pan" before it finally went out. Anyway, I feel that these next few weeks will be a major change either one way or the other. I think I am mentally ready for which ever way it goes.
This weekend is my oldest D's Birthday. Youngest D is coming tonight to spend the night and see the new house and we will all make it a day tomorrow. Lase Sunday C called me and said she would be in town this weekend and I could come over and get more stuff if I wanted. However, she stated that she was in no hurry. I guess I will go over on Sunday morning to get some things I might need to get the house ready. I have an extension latter and an air hose reel as the only things that are not in the back storage shed. Our seperation agreement says that I can use the storage shed as long as I need and it is full of stuff. She also said she was in no hurry for me to clean it out either but I do want to get it empty as soon as I can. I also told C that last Sunday. That way I will not have any of my stuff at her house and therefore no reason to go over unless she wants me to.
Also, I need to think about a new thread - Just noticed that this one is getting long enough for JJ to notice and lock out.
Every one go out and make it a great day and keep smiling.
Odga, I have been thinking about you. I know things are hard and not where you would have them be but I just want you to know what a wonderful man you are. Thanks for being here and sharing with all of us.
The best thing we can do for ourselfves is do for ourselves. Think about our future and move forward. I see you doing that... and I know you will be ok, no, better than ok...
I met a member of your profession yesterday and really liked her... I hope she can help me through the next phase of my life.
Hang in there... the Lord has better things ahead for you.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
