If I may, I want to thank you, water and gd1 for these last few posts. They served as a timely reminder of just how narrow the view is from the WAS's tunnel.
Further, I can tell you that my WAS in one of his better moments answered the question of did he ever consider anyone elses feelings with a flat "NO".
Everything they think concerns only them.
BTW ODGA! I'm so glad you are posting I've learned so much.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
