good news - I had an IM from C first thing this morning and then when she got back from lunch another - When I went to lunch I went to Chinese and my fortune cookie had an interesting statement -- "your suitor needs subtle encouragement to open up" So after my last client and as I was about to leave the office I noticed C was still online, so I thought I would do the innitiating and sent her the "Bob the Builder" icon that I have adopted as mine - She replied with "I hope your headache is better" (I have had one all day and we had talked about it in our earlier IMs) then after a little chitchat I said that I was about to leave the office and just wanted to wish her a good night.
She replied with "Thank you, Very Much.... You too!!! then she sent me the Rose Icon without me sending the rainbow first. (one of my goals - and you will have to read my earlier threads to see where that is comming from) I replied with the Rainbow Icon and left the office with a smile.