Odga, That is what we were talking about. But, I think dragging the D out is what I would be doing. Yes he can just go and file even though I also filed. But then as his att said to him in court last, by counter-petioning it would only cost him $25 but if H filed it would cost him more. I think I shocked my H by dropping the motion to dismiss.
I still think a Legal separation would have been beter. They say it is like a D, but I would have been able to stay on his medical insurance. According to my att, I will never be able to remarry anyway, if I want to keep the maintence coming in every month.But then, I mated for life, so I'm not looking! So the only difference is, H wouldn't be able to remarry either. So what is this saying that H wants to remarry or that he legally wants to be D? Frankly I don't think he knows what he wants...Me? I just want to survive... My home is here, I'm happy with where I live, except the winter months, but even then, I have survived one 1/2 winters alone, so...
Been doing alot of bible reading and rereading Ed Wheats book! I think there is ONE person I can count on and that is God! I know he will never let me down, he is always there to listen and he will always show me the right way to go.
What a great day for golfing yesterday! God was everywhere yesterday! Life was good! Heck, I even got two pars! Now that is a miracle!
