Thanks for the thoughts about Hope for the Separated on Deb's thread & also for your legal input a couple weeks go. Still working thru all that. I want to set boundries & protect myself but also don't want to make him too mad. He gets veri irritated when I do push him on financial issues, etc. But, he is pretty much not talking to me unless he needs something from me so I don't know that things can get much worse. It's funny how I can feel so detached but then the weekend comes & I feel really sad & missing him.
Sounds like your situation is going well. You seem to really be doing things the right way & I hope it works out for you. It seems to all be in the detaching... I hope someday to be where you are but things w/ H just don't seem promising & I am finding myself questioning if he is really who I want. but, it comes back to that I do love him, just don't really like who he is right now.
I hope someday to be where you are but things w/ H just don't seem promising & I am finding myself questioning if he is really who I want. but, it comes back to that I do love him, just don't really like who he is right now. 
