C dropped the bomb on Aug 9, filed for D in Sept. final order Oct 14. We continued dating through Jan 04 when she dropped bomb 2 that she had had A before the D (don't know when the physical started - if before or after bomb 1) But she was definately seeing someone before and from what I have gathered in talking with her it was going on for several months before bomb 1.

BUT

just got an im from C - she wants me to come over to go out for dinner tonight and wanted me to bring my swimsuit. She did not say what she had in mind, but she is the one that is pursuing now and I will go along for the ride for now. Could be fun.


ODGA