Hi Ogda~ I wanted to ask you a question if you don't mind, since we are in simular sits.
When you started dating, did you tell C prior?
I have a casual date for drinks tomorrow and have this feeling like I need to tell XH. Is that weird?
I am sad at the same time. I want to call him and tell him and say that if we could just get things together. I really don't want to find someone new.
What are everyones thougths on this stage of DB'ing and how the heck to handle it.
I know that the last thing I would want would be for XH and I to see each other and have it come up that "oh yeah I've been dating for months." If that were me I would feel like Why didn't you tell me that? Or worse yet, to hear it from the kids or someone else.
Pick up the phone and just say, I wanted to let you know that while I wish you and I could work things out and start new, I'm not holding the door open. If you get to that point as well give me a call. But I have enough respect for you to let you know that I will be seeing other people.
The other weirdness I'm feeling is that if I tell XH that I have a date, it will hurt his feelings. Although he was less than concerned with MY feelings as he was having A.
XH has in round about way expressed concern that I am seeing people.
