Did I remind you that I have anyways been telling you this is going to happen~ "I TOLD YOU SO"
Yes do take it slowly, so you don't send her running. I do believe when my H was trying to reconnect, that I should of kept back. No wonder he ran back in the tunnel! So take it slowly, whatever you have been doing is working!
I for one, am NOT surprised she is making her way back to you! WOO HOO!