Yes, but re-read it s-l-o-w-l-y, thinking all the while about yourself in relation to what you're reading. Also, you might start with the "crucible survival guide", I find that VERY helpful in helping me to think about how I might be contributing to whatever is happening. As Schnarch says, stop "working on your R", let your R work on YOU. You can't change HIM, you can only change YOURSELF, but doing that will help you grow, and will also force HIM to confront HIS issues. Trust me, they will be there.
