Wow Deb, reading your sitch definitely gives me the hope that I need. Im still praying that one day H will be able to see the OW as she is and not put her on a pedestal anymore, that she is also a person with faults. And he already has a devoted wife waiting for him at home...

Deb, I think you are doing great already. All I can say is keep up being the loving understanding wife that you already are...


Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..