Hi Rottz, yes, the similarities are amazing. I found it interesting also that H says OW told him that the A will turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to our M????!!!! I don't know, maybe she's right, maybe this is the fire we had to walk through to become polished, if that makes any sense.
Another thing that was interesting was the earlier comment about the OW wanting to get a cat like the H's and name it the same name. We have a cat (D's actually) that is really weird looking, a kind of Russian Blue/dilute calico with a Russian name....H told me months ago OW said they had had a cat with the same name that looked just like ours. Huh, yeah right, I'm almost 50 years old and I've seen one other cat in my life that looks like this one...what strings they won't jerk to try to make a connection. Truely amazes me.