Hey Deb, all GREAT news!!! I am so happy for you. It must be in the water, all these spouses changing their minds.

For the rest of you, don't worry, it can still happen for you. Remember patience.

I also got the same impression from my H. I knew when it was over because he just seemed more relaxed and peaceful. My H said that "if he put as much energy into loving me as he did having feelings for his EA, we never would have had problems." The similarities are really eerie when they turn around, huh? H also said that it may have been the hardest thing I ever did, but also the smartest. Boy is that true!


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