If anybody sees anything else I should be doing here, PLEASE jump in and pitch it out to me....I am as confused as ever, I have no clue what to do other than "stay steady", love him up, and enjoy having the great guy I married at least close to back....
Any one who's been through this find things that were particularly effective/important?

I'm so afraid he may go back to her out of guilt, although at one point in our talks H did say "how can you ever trust a person like that, given her track record?" (another duh...I told you so moment that went unspoken).....do they usually stay clear after all this kind of stuff?

I keep hoping she will find a different job.....


been around awhile!