Hi Pamila, I appreciate your insights on the dream, it was very frightening to me at the time, but not so much now. I do remember you posting about your OW dream now that you mention it. And, I'm with you about the power of dreams to guide us, again hopefully without sounding too flakey, but there have been so many times in my life when I have found the answers to tough problems coming to me through dreams.
I may not have posted much about the t-shirt....so the scoop: in Mid-November, as an early xmas gift to H and because I felt like he needed some time to himself (a month after I found out about A for sure) I sent him to our mountain vacation spot. H is into hiking/climbing, and one thing he always gets himself when we are there is a "black diamond" shirt....black diamond is a brand of climbing equipment. When he came home, he said he didn't get a shirt because they didn't have any, which I thought was really weird but oh well....then in January I found on his dresser a list of things to get back from OW....on it was "black diamond shirt"....so I knew he'd given his precious new shirt to her....but it's been interesting to see the things on that list slowly coming home, and when he stuffed that shirt into the laundry hamper last weekend, I just thought "huh, I think that about checks everything off the list" because I was sure thats what it was. and I was right.
Thank you for all your prayers, I'm also keeping you in mine.
Last night was interesting, I will post about it seperately in a minute.
We leave for vacation a week from today and will be gone through the 27th. I see god's hand in that timing!
