I hope that the chocolate killed the Crazymaker. 'Cause I noticed she's back! STOP IT NOW!
Try telling yourself that every time you bring her up in conversation with your H you are reminding him of HER. This is not what you want! I rather you stuff pieces of chocolate in your mouth to keep yourself quiet than continue like this! haha
Seriously, remember your DB skills and act as if. Your H finds you incredibily attractive when you act self-assured.
He's still hurting, obviously. Just don't push him.
Take care and have a great weekend! (Wish I could post more but I am on my way out of town. Will check in when I get back.)