yeah, you're right Rottz!

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Think about it. What would you advise me to do? Think it through, and then do it yourself.



So, here's what I would advise:
---reread the DR chapters on infidelity and midlife crisis;
---Eat some chocolate while reading it to increase concentration
---take a nap to let it soak in.
REPEAT steps 1 - 3 until step one is thoroughly baked into gray matter of brain! Ok, so I've already started on steps 1 & 2....hopefully the baking will not take too long....

I'd also probably suggest writing out ways H could provide reassurance, mentioning it once (yep, I remember the "unless he's deaf, he heard you" statement) and then let it go and see what happens.

Then, come to think of it, I might suggest saying the h--l with it all for a while and starting to pack for vacation.

been around awhile!