Deb: Rottzilla is right, my gut also told me when he finally was done with all of his shenangians and recomitted to us. Taking some time for yourself is a great idea, rest and relax. Remember we are all here to listen so dont worry. You are doing fine and have no reason to doubt yourself now. This all takes time and for those of us who tend to be impatient ( i am the worst!!!)it is hard. Calm and patience are your friends while you are busy being H's friend. And so are we.
Have a relaxing afternoon.



debra