Hey Deb, I've been following your sitch. Sorry I haven't had time to post. Things have been crazy at work, and at home and you always have so much to go through.
This is all so great.
I wonder if the shirt was for OW to sleep with.
My H also has a momento in my livingroom - a cheap lighted globe - and a scarf on his jacket - that OW bought him. I'm leaving it alone. This weekend, we have a party planned and I am going to ask him to clean livingroom and hope he cleans that out as well.