honeypot, you are one smart cookie! I bet that's it in a nutshell....long ago I asked him why he wasnt wearing his ring since we were still married and were "working on it"...he said, "I don't think I should now, do you?" so yeah, I bet he needed to get the boot, so to speak, to feel like he could.
I know he does feel terribly guilty for what he's done to her. I still say she had her eyes wide open when she went in to it, or if she didn't is pretty darn thick-headed herself.
Oh well, I don't care, it doesnt matter.....I just came from the other building and had to walk right by her in the hall, looked right at her, and felt....nothing.....absolutely nothing......no anger, no pity, no hate, no disgust, absolutely nothing....how weird is that? don't know if that means I've let go of it already or am still so in shock that it hasnt hit. I'm hoping I've let go of it....Lord knows I've had months, a year in fact, to come to terms with all this crap.....
