another interesting thought occurred to me....I always thought maybe it would take awhile after he and OW parted ways before H put his ring back on....but he came home, went upstairs, got it out of the basket it's lain in for 9 or 10 months, and put it on.....I wonder if it's a security blanket kind of thing, defiance to OW, a symbol to me of his commitment, all of the above, none of the above......

It will be interesting....I know people at work have noticed him not wearing it, since he's been here for 15 years and always wore it until the last year, and these are folks trained to notice details. I'm sure they will notice him having it back on....so I guess his putting it on is really a big statement to the world......I wonder if anyone will comment? probably not....I'll just see raised eyebrows and unasked questions....


been around awhile!