Honeypot, I bet you are right, I think that has to be it....months ago, H told me he "had in his mind" he would decide something by June.....he must have told OW same thing.....and over those months I would have to say emotionally he's moved closer to home....I'd almost bet she did put the screws to him to decide, and that would explain his look of totally being blown away when he said "you don't understand, she doesnt want to hear from me"....as I recall in the same discussion months ago when he told me "by June", he also said "I know she'll always be there if we don't work out"....I remember thinking at the time how incredibly gullible he was if he believed that.....
I bet she did give him an ultimatum.....and I bet she's pretty upset at him....
Now I get to start "romanting" this guy....soon as I figure out how, it's going to be fun! Weird, now it finally feels like it will be "ok" to go after my own husband...slowly, slowly, slowly of course....
