Deb,
That doesn't surprise me at all.
I imagine that she put the screws to him to make a decision once and for all and when he did, she said "do not ever contact me again". And probably some other not-so-nice things!
You have really held your head up high; I don't know how you did it but your H must be in awe and amazement of the powerful woman that he married right about now!

hp