At one time in one of his weeping spells saturday night, H raised his head off my shoulder, and with tears running down his cheeks said "at least you're nice to me....I really appreciate that".....I guess is doesnt matter, but I keep wondering what the heck he meant by that, especially since when the A came to light one of his excuses was "you were mean to me".... The guy was in so much emotional distress though, it doesnt seem like something to take lightly.....I wonder if he means nice to him in response to his efforts to "come back", or if OW "got mean" in order for them to break up?
One thing I've learned from this whole mess is that H is not the tough macho stalwart (sp) I always thought he was....he's more fragile I think than I am.....
