Gosh Deb, I am away from the boards for a few days to see my son graduate from college and WOW!!! Good for you. Just remember, the next few weeks your H will be adjusting to all of this. Be patient, let him lead. He still has some hurting and mourning to do. Patience is still key. Congratulations!!!! Now go live your life and I wish for you and your family much happiness and love.