Totally, wanted to let you know I'm considering your suggestions and how to implement them.....I havent dismissed them, just gotta figure out how to fit them into my life....
I think you are the one who just posted that there was nothing else to say about the A to your H, that he knew where you stood and how you felt. I'm at that point w/my H....he knows darn good and well how I feel, I keep thinking deep down he's going to get rid of OW, I feel like he's coming closer to me, but I find it so hard not to need reassurance from him in this regard.
I don't know if I will be able to resist asking him when he gets home or not.
If I write him the letter, it will be to tell him I understand my part in contibuting to the A and how it happened.