Almost forgot to post, D called last night and H had a nice conversation w/her. they used to be really close and had a great R, then when this all happened, it really went down the tubes, they actually refused to speak to each other for months.....D was so furious w/him, and H was furious w/D for being angry and having the nerve to tell him he was full of s--t and had no right to be doing what he was doing....his take was that she didn't understand how miserable he had been and had no right to judge him. wow, they were furious with each other. So it was great to hear them enjoyind talking together. Does this sound like reconnection to you all?