Hi Deb, sorry i havent been around. Your thread is really inspiring. I sure can use a lot of advise here since we are in similar stage. My H and I will move in together, God willing by end of the month, but I am trying as hard as I can not to have expectation. I am just taking one day at a time and let H initiate the house searching. Will not press him. I guess soon I will be in exactly similar sithc with you. H already living together but still seeing OW. Thats what he told me tht he will continue to see OW until they part progressively.

it will be another difficult stage for me. Will learn from your stich though.

take care...

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