Thanks Totally and Nevanna...I am going to really work at incorporating both of your suggestions, and the encouragement is so helpful. I do need to be more mysterious. I've seen little flashes of jealousy in H...He was pretty fired up when my old bf from many many years ago was at D's wedding and obviously thrilled to see me.
Nevanna, your last paragraph about accepting how the "alien behavior" fit into your H's personality really hit me, and that total acceptance comes at that point. I need to really think on this, and need to read through your thread more
What on earth would I ever do with out you folks here on the board? it is so tremedously encouraging to know that people have made it through this....some days it's the only thing that keeps me putting one foot in front of the other. Gotta go home after 13 hours here at the office and see what's up, so talk to you all later. Have a great weekend, all!
