Hi dfb, I'll try to get by, may have to do so later, I have to get ready to teach a class tonight....get this: Parenting after Divorce, a class required for parents of minor children who are divorcing. gulp. I've taught it for 18 years, but it has a whole new meaning to me now. Some nights it's pretty tough to teach, because it's hard to talk around the lump in my throat! Ususually I do ok except a couple of months ago I had an aggressive jerk with a chip on his shoulder who wanted to know if I was divorced, and I had to just stop talking and stand there for a few minutes to regain my composure. I did it though! look out academy awards, here I come. I'm always relieved when class is over though!