Yes, I think that sounds like some fun stuff to maybe try...I have gotten some toys, and H likes them....sometimes I think he has too much fun trying them out on me....I agree some of the stuff is too much for me...a little scary even, but some it's fun. I've tried to get H to go with me, but problem is, some of his clients work there, or he's afraid he'll run in to some of them, so I havent been able to get him to go. Plus the fact that I think he's shy'er (sp?) than he wants to admit about sex...I'm definitely going to try the massage stuff though, and I saw some KamaSutra cards I thought I would get and put in his lunch every now and then. But, I have to slow down a little on the sex stuff right now since he's kind of one this kick of "it's not all about sex" and that it's "Insulting that you think all I think about is sex" I guess it's kind of like trying to figure out how to have a sexless affair w/my H????????weird, weird, weird......
Say, I tried to post to you this morning, and it looks like your thread is locked up! I did get a chance to read through and catch up though. It looks like things are really going well for you!