Deb -

You mentioned a few posts back about having an A with your H. How about some handcuffs and massage oil and such? There is nothing like going to an adult store and having someone say "here is our bondage dept". (I had that happen this past week). They even make handcuffs with fluff on them so you don't hurt your hands.

That was my second visit ever to an adult store - the first time was a couple of years ago and I turned red and freaked slightly (ex-b was there). He didn't believe this time I'd not go a bit nuts, and I didn't - he wasn't there this time, which was fine. Though I think it'd have been a lot more fun with him. I don't like everything they sell (eww), but if nothing else, it adds a little more to the fun I'm having with ex-b.

Anyway...just some thoughts to spice things up. If ex-b and I never get together in a committed way, he'll have a lot to look back on.