I think I'll move my post from yesterday evening (before the sex question) over here for "tracking" so.....
S and I were gone when H got home, I left a note but he didn't find it....he seemed pretty grumpy when we pulled in, asked 2x before I could even answer where we had been. When he finally slowed down enough to hear me answer, I asked for a smooch and he came over and gave me one, I made a suggestion and he said "maybe later"....evidently he's had a couple of really crappy days at work that contribute to his grumpyiness.
S told me he asked his dad on Sunday if he was off work Monday, and his dad answered "well kind of" grumpily, as if he had to do something he didnt want to do, like go in to the office. I HOPE that's it! theres a new phone card in his hiding place beside the computer, so I was right about that....o well, it's not a surprise.
I've been thinking about ChristineE's comment on her new thread about having an A with her H.....I would love to, but I can't figure out how to go about it when he is kind of keeping his distance right now. I feel sure that if I go too hot and heavy after him, he's gonna run the opposite direction, so I've not come up with much of a clue of how to maintain grace and calm and initiate an A with him....he is really pretty turned off by blatant sexual overtures right now...........According to what others have posted this is likely/maybe because he feels like he's betraying her?
I was so tired today, I got off the wrong freeway exit not once, not twice, but 3X.
