OK, here's the sex question I was "pondering" yesterday evening, the one I posted just before my thread got locked.

I have a sex question that is kind of scary to me, this may not be the place to post it, but I'm ASSuming someone who would read it here would know a little bit about my sitch, so maybe would have insight. I can't believe I would ask such questions, talk about 180's, but anyway, here goes.

2x in the last month or so H's erection would "come and go" as we ML....another 2x he didn't have an erection as we began foreplay....I've never known this to happen before, and I'm kind of curious what could be behind it. I worry of course that he's been w/OW, but I don't think he could have been at those times. He has been taking an antibiotic for sinus infection and decongestants and antihistimines. I know some meds can cause this type of thing....what else would cause it? stress? worry? guilt? not being interested (although he generally just says so if he's not in the mood)

I don't know what to think........
I've not responded, just acted "as if" nothing was different or I didn't notice, and things "recovered" so to speak, so I guess that's the way to handle this?



been around awhile!