R -- Glad to hear things continue to progress. Big kudos to h for handling xow so firmly!
I'm wondering if h's slow return to PI with you is a result of guilt? Maybe he's struggling with forgiving himself? Also, sorry I can't recall this...is he on ADs?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.