Hey all, just posting to let you know I am still around. Haven't had time lately to read or post, but here I am now.
H is still "with" me, meaning he is there, present, and listening to me whenever I speak. He is really truly trying, but the "feelings" for me still aren't there. He won't say ILY still, and kisses on the lips are few and very far between. Although hand holding is getting closer and closer.
So, we continue to trudge along. He is smart and educated and knows now what caused the EA with OW and has proven that he will never do it again. She called the other night and left him a voice mail while I was next to him. He deleted it without listening, and then went to work the next day and told her not to talk to him anymore. Then came home and told me he did it.
No secrets between us anymore. I feel so good about that.
I did see her phone number and had the urge to call her and ask if he told the whole truth about it only being an EA. But, what would that do besides putting us right back at the beginning?
