Great thinking!!!!! I'm so happy that you have both made the decision to put the past EM in th past and LEAVE IT THERE!!!! I think this is such a major contributer to getting back on the right track and staying there. I think that is part of my ex problem, the counselor said that he doesn't think of me "as a wife" anymore, but yet he still loves and spends all hi time with me. but hey thats my stitch!!! again I am so happy for you!!!!!!! I have been biking alot myself but not loosing any weight, but I think my legs are getting bigger, well my calves are, don't know if tht is good or bad.