New revelation, when things are going well, don't remind them of why they were bad. I think he honestly forgot that he doesn't "feel the in-love" feelings anymore. It's almost as if it wasn't a priority, and now I've reminded him of it.
This is such a great insight and reminder! It's one of the reasons (I think) why R talks that focus on the negative (and I can be the queen of them!) can really result in a backslide.
Thanks for the prompt!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.