OK, now I recall, with the mention of the jewelry and 4 kids and other guys a work....wow. how crappy. These OP's can be incredible, huh.
Obviously, you've gotten things turned around so far and so fast, it will be a moot point if he tells you something different in the future, moot in that you two will be so far past it it won't matter. But still, I hear you about having a few choice words you'd like to share!!!!tehehehe!