No, he will not consider counseling for his ED. Before the heart problems, after about 4 yrs of begging he finally went to the dr. Tried one thing, then gave up. He then went back when viagra came out, but it didn't work for him. Said it gave him horrible headaches and gave up on that too. He believes now that his ED problems are totally physical. I don't think so. He has some really big issues to overcome with his past, but won't face them. His father was a military man and after he was out of the military he had a hard time finding a decent job, then was hurt, (don't know all the details) but then I would figure he became very depressed. From what I understand his mom was seeing someone else and is still with that man to this day. His father committed suiside. I don't think he has faced all that in reality. Anyway, I wouldn't even know how to bring up to him about his ED problem again. Its been so hush hush for so many years. We have grown so apart we don't talk about anything except the everyday stuff........ie: how was your day, ect, ect.
