No, you are not ancient!!!! Neither am I (48) I wish I could get my H to even consider counseling. I have tried for 10 yrs to get him to agree, but he refuses. Now that I don't care what happens he would probably go
I see my H as a good friend, not much more. I don't know what will happen, but for now I keep busy, it helps. I am just not willing to put another 10 years of trying to get him to do something he can't/won't. Sorry your sitch hasn't gotten better.
