tim47:

Wanting to be desired, that is not differentiated at all is it. Is the only fix for this to find a way to NOT want to be desired. Doesn't everyone want to be desired? Since I was a teenager, the only real goal in my life is to be "Desired" by a lover. How does one stop this? I find all the other things in life to be such MINOR things when compared to this. How does one forget about the need to be desired?